Stoicism
Some things are up to us and some are not; freedom is knowing the difference and living from it.
Stoicism is a philosophy of the examined, resilient life. Its central insight — the dichotomy of control — is that our judgements, choices, and actions are ours, while external events are not; suffering comes from demanding of the world what only our own mind can give. By living in accordance with nature and reason, practising the four virtues, and greeting each event as material for character, the Stoic becomes free amid fortune's turns — not cold, but clear; not passive, but unshakably engaged.
“You have power over your mind — not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”
— Marcus Aurelius
Raags whose mood meets this path — sit with one as you contemplate.